Vetnups
Commitment-oriented dating app with vetted profile attributes.

For singles looking for something serious.

Vetnups is built for people who know what they want: marriage, having a baby, building a blended family, growing a large one, relocating abroad to be with a partner. Or simply, for those looking for long-term engagement and stability. Some attributes are verified through official documents, others in person at your local Office Studios.

No swiping to join. We're vetting our first cohort by hand.

Near a launch city and open to verifying in person? Documents and identity confirmed on the spot, maybe a photo session too, if the timing lines up.

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What Vetnups changes for you

No swiping, no games.
Verified attributes, not just photos.
A real place to meet — online and in person.
No ads. No marketing emails. Only account administration.

What Vetnups means

Vetnups combines a prefix, "vet," and a suffix, "-nups." The prefix comes from the verb "to vet," meaning to examine. Historically, it referred to examining a horse before a sale.

By 1901, the term had broadened: scrutiny before any binding commitment — a hire, a loan, a visa, a signed contract.The classic example is the matrimonial agency, which vets its members before making an introduction.

It sits above both "check" and "verify." A check is quick; a verification confirms one claim. A background check compiles records — but vetting looks at the whole picture. We want the person to be who they say they are.

The suffix "-nups" comes from nuptial, Latin for marriage. As in prenup, short for prenuptial agreement: marriage's own vetting, before the commitment.

What a Vetnups profile looks like

Sample profile — verified attributes

A verified profile: identity, aspirations, family, career, and lifestyle — all in one place.

See how it works

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How it works

  1. Join the waitlist. Tell us who you are and what you're looking for.
  2. We build your profile. We prepare your profile with the information you provide.
  3. We launch. When we reach enough members, we open the platform.
  4. You get verified. After payment, we verify your documents and activate your profile.

€3/month at launch. No hidden fees. Cancel anytime.

Sample manifest — 7 of 30+ checks
Identity
Government ID cross-checked against a live selfie, confirmed by a human reviewer
Verified
Photos
Live-selfie match required only on photos used to unlock paid visibility. Everything else stays as uploaded.
Optional
Locations
Current and past residences confirmed against ID and official documents
Verified
Height
Confirmed from ID data, upgradable to an in-person check
Verified
Income & assets
Payslips, bank statements, or tax records — shown as a range, not a figure
Verified
Education
Degree and institution checked against official records
Verified
Marital status
Divorce decree or court certificate on file where claimed
Verified

For those who've had enough dating fatigue to last a lifetime.

Vetnups — verify what matters to you.