Vetnups
Commitment-oriented dating app with vetted profile attributes.

For singles looking for something serious.

Vetnups is built for people who know what they want: marriage, having a baby, building a blended family, growing a large one, relocating abroad to be with a partner. Or simply, for those looking for long-term engagement and stability. Some attributes are verified through official documents, others in person at a Vetnups location.

No swiping to join. We're vetting our first cohort by hand.

Near a launch city and open to verifying in person? Join the list — documents and identity confirmed on the spot, maybe a photo session too, if the timing lines up.

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What "vetted" actually means

Sample manifest — 7 of 30+ checks

"Vetted" comes from having a vet examine a horse before a sale. Racehorses and breeding stock were worth a fortune, and their condition wasn't always visible — so a qualified expert checked, not just the paperwork.

By 1901, the word had generalized: to subject something to careful examination. Today it's the standard term for scrutiny before a binding commitment — a hire, a loan, a visa, a signed contract.

It sits above both "check" and "verify." A check is quick; a verification confirms one claim. Vetting looks at the whole picture — we want the person to be who they say they are.

Vetnups follows the same logic to the letter. The second half of the name is "-nups," from nuptial — Latin for marriage. As in prenup, short for prenuptial agreement: marriage's own vetting, before the commitment.

Identity
Government ID cross-checked against a live selfie, confirmed by a human reviewer
Verified
Photos
Live-selfie match required only on photos used to unlock paid visibility. Everything else stays as uploaded.
Optional
Locations
Current and past residences confirmed against ID and official documents
Verified
Height
Confirmed from ID data, upgradable to an in-person check
Verified
Income & assets
Payslips, bank statements, or tax records — shown as a range, not a figure
Verified
Education
Degree and institution checked against official records
Verified
Marital status
Divorce decree or court certificate on file where claimed
Verified

For those who've had enough dating fatigue to last a lifetime.

Vetnups — verify what matters to you.